Portland and a shaved head
April 27, 2008 by weedivine
First, I ran off to Portland for Friday night. Then came home to coach on Saturday. I’ve decided its not Portland for me this summer. Great city, nice people, but too small and too close. I’m feeling antsy. Lots of stuff has been coming up, lots of clearing out, dealing, figuring. Oh life!
This morning I went to church, and inspired by the tales of a friend, am thinking about shaving my head. Oh boy. Mostly the urge represents my energy and desire around change. About stripping away all the ways I define myself and measure myself to find something more real. My boyfriend would kill me. Isn’t it funny how people equate sexuality to how someone looks? How attached I am to something like hair? One guy friend told me that I probably wouldn’t have sex for a while…. he then offered to close his eyes if I really needed to get laid. I’m not sure why I call him a friend…someone has to have hair to have sex with you? To be “attractive” enough to “get” laid? It just show how some people while being so cool are so confused and misinformed.
how sad that our ideas about sex are tied into pathetic ideas about beauty.
Good grief. Bald women can be damn sexy. I got hit on way more when i was sporting a buzz cut than i did when i had hair down to my shoulders.
It takes some serious guts for a woman to cut off all of her hair. There are no small amount of people out there who find that level of moxie very attractive.
ahhh thanks for the comment. That is amazing to hear, it gives me faith in humanity
Maybe I’ll do it…